Married men and dating
If you are one of this kind, we are glad to see you in our community. Download our free apps to stay in touch Members already registered: Marriage is one of the most important steps couples take in their life.Once you are sure you want to wake up with your lovely man/woman every morning, spend time together, live together, raise children, simply enjoy life and be faithful to each other, you want to make your relationships official.I don't believe anything good can come from intentionally trying to destroy something else. No one dreams of meeting the man of their dreams and see them already married.I have learned that the man of your dreams, really truly is not going to come married to someone else.When the traditional big belly daddies hit on you, you know flat out that's not for you. You ain't attracted to them and you ain't looking to be nobodies sugar baby. Boo aged 22 (how old I was when I moved there) was either still in high school or still in college. Of the four I would say two of them were actual relationships while the other two were passionate flings. ) but they knew who I was and the nature of the relationship with their son.
Since moving back to West Africa in 2007, more married than single men have attempted to court me.
In the majority of cases the married boos had wives in foreign countries.(Who would actually date a married man whose wife lived in the same country code? Like I said, I always thought of myself as a self respecting young lady and so even in dating a married man I thought there should be a thieves code.)This is how they were: One married man said he was separated or soon to be separated and considering a divorce (it was true). Unlike what everyone assumes when you date a married man is that the relationships are always transactional. I was there when they would call their wives, or their wives would call.
Two others lived on the continent while the wives lived in the diaspora. The relationships have all since ended, and with one of them I'm still shaking my head like how did I ever even date this man? Sometimes I would leave the room and give them privacy and other times they would excuse themselves always returning to say sorry.
Lord knows my Gates Millennium Scholar ass was definitely too intelligent to be one of them.
Fast forward 10 years on the continent and girrrrllllll!!!!
What no one tells you when you move back home with your degree and fabulousity in tow, is that married men don't all come as the big belly sugar daddy Nollywood Ogas.